" The slogan: 'Be grateful to everyone' is about making peace with the aspects of ourselves that we have rejected. Through doing that, we also make peace with the people we dislike.
More to the point, being around people we dislike is often a catalyst for making friends with ourselves. Thus 'Be grateful to everyone.' "
(Pema Chodron, "START WHERE YOU ARE, HOW TO ACCEPT
YOURSELF AND OTHERS'', 2003)